Author: StephanieBBlake

I love to help others focus on the one thing that's most important in life through my ministry, teaching and writing. As Vice President of Xtend Ministries International - www.xtendinternational.com, I travel extensively with my husband. I maintain two websites: www.onefocusministries.com and stretchmoney.wordpress.com. On the One Focus site, you can find free Bible studies, devotionals and information about my first book, "The Prayer Driven Life". My book, "Money: How to Be Rich Without It and How to Stretch It Using Ten Hints from the Past and the Technology of Today" was the inspiration for stretchmoney.wordpress.com. Money saving hints are contained throughout the book and this site was created to continue to give helpful hints on stretching money or having the proper view toward money.

An Exercise in Biblical Study

My rule for understanding scripture is always to read the passage first, over and over again, before ever opening a commentary. I know for a certainty God’s word is inspired but even the wisest and most respected theologians can insert their personal opinions into the interpretation of scripture.

As I prepare to teach my own Bible studies, there have been occasions when I have not even ventured outside of the Word of God in the preparation of the study. It is not that I don’t think commentators have something of value to say. It is simply that scripture itself usually gives the meaning of a passage – or that the theme I am studying has a thread running from Genesis to Revelation. I love to connect the dots and discover those threads.

Recently I felt the need to use my husband’s large theological library in order to help me understand two small books – 2 and 3 John. After multiple readings of these two letters I still had questions.

These are the smallest books of the New Testament. One commentator even suggested that they had a hard time making it into being included in the final version of scripture. Curiously, one of the full commentary sets (covering Genesis to Revelation) on my husband’s shelf doesn’t even bother to mention them.

However, since these books are included in my copy of scripture, I believe that God had a reason for doing so. Since all Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work (2 Timothy 3:16-17), I believe that there is no part of His word that should be skipped over. Every word deserves contemplation.

I suggest you read both these books. They are very short. The comments made by theologians won’t make much sense unless you read through these letters first.

Practically every commentator admitted their interpretations were a guess. Comments such as “may be”, “conjecture is fruitless”, and “no one can be sure” were interspersed throughout their writings. I thought it interesting, however, that some of them were very adamant that their interpretation had to be correct even while admitting that others (even quoting the commentator) had a different and sometimes opposite opinion.

The greeting in both letters is from “the Elder.” There was agreement that the Elder was the aged apostle John, probably the last surviving apostle. The word elder was often interpreted as Presbyter, a word understood to mean a wise leader in the body of Christ.

Some theologians saw no connection between the two letters while others insisted that the two were incontrovertibly tied together.

Some believe that 2 John was a letter to a particular church (the elect lady and her children) instructing the leadership to watch very carefully for false doctrine. They believe that John sent this letter to the church where Gaius and Diotrephes were members. 2 John does not mention any one by name. The elect lady and her children in verse 1 of 2 John and the children of your elect sister in verse 13 of 2 John could refer to the church to which John was addressing 2 John and the church where he resided (many believe he was in Ephesus). The commentators say if that is true, then John’s statement, “I wrote to the church” (3 John 9) refers to 2 John. That seems reasonable to me. Even today, we refer to “sister churches.”

Others emphatically state that 2 John must have been addressed to a Christian woman of high character, a special friend of the apostle John, saying there is no connection between the two letters.

John does mention three names in 3 John: Gaius to whom the letter was addressed, Diotrephes whose desire for power and control was causing great discord in the church and Demetrius who had an impeccable reputation among all. Some commentators believe that Demetrius was the one who carried the letters at the same time to both the church (2 John) and to Gaius (3 John). Both these letters end with a similar statement. John had many things he wanted to communicate, but made his letters short because he fully intended to come and speak face to face with the church and with Gaius. Whether he actually made that trip is unknown.

In 2 John, John rejoices that some of your children are walking in truth. If this is indeed addressed to a church, the commentators suggest that some was used because some of the members were not walking in the truth – mainly Diotrephes and his followers.

Understanding that there is a possibility that these two letters are not related, it seems likely that they were. The truth that John was trying to convey was the same truth he made abundantly clear in the gospel of John, 1 John and Revelation. The truth is Jesus Christ. Without trusting in His Truth, there is no love, there is no salvation and there is no reward. His greeting in 2 John emphasizes God the Father and … the Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of the Father, in truth and love (verse 3).

The church should not let anything or anyone stand in the way of the truth of that doctrine. That truth can be known and known intimately. 1 John mentions “know, knows, known” 38 times – These things are written so that you may know you have eternal life (1 John 5:13).

Jesus is the head of the church. There is no other preeminent one in His body. That was the great evil of Diotrephes – he wanted to be in control, the boss of the church, and he took down others with him. One commentator even mentioned an article that had been published about Diotrephes in a Christian magazine. The editor received 25 calls from church deacons cancelling their subscriptions because they were offended by the article!

The fact that commentators could not say for certainty who John was writing to or even if Gaius was still a member of the church or had been excommunicated as a result of Diotrephes’ efforts or whether Demetrius was a member of Gaius’ church or the bearer of the letters does not bother me. These things may be debated throughout the ages or even not counted worthy of consideration.

What cannot be ignored is that God takes very seriously what we believe. John admonishes against being tolerant of false doctrine and evil in the church. At least five times in 2 John and at least six times in 3 John, the word truth is mentioned. What is clear is that we are to love in truth (2 John 1, 3 John 1). “And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free” (John 8:32). “I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me” (John 14:6).

 

Stephanie B. Blake

© August 2014

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Jet lag

I am writing this at 4:21AM. I have already been awake twice this evening and tried unsuccessfully to go to sleep again. This is not uncommon for me as I travel frequently overseas and have never found a cure for jet lag.

I have tried everything suggested to get around the sleeplessness, but nothing seems to work for me. Sleeping pills don’t work. I can go to sleep but I can’t stay asleep. Staying up until normal bedtime when I have reached my destination doesn’t work. I still get up in the middle of the night. Trying to lull myself back to sleep with a good book or soft music doesn’t work. My mind still spins and my body rebels.

I know others who seem to have no problems with jet lag. One says she just stays up all night before a trip packing and attending to last minute details and when she gets on the airplane, she sleeps and is set for the new time zone upon arrival. She says, “I don’t let myself think about jet lag. I just set my watch for the new time upon takeoff and I’m good to go.”

800px-Anker_Zwei_schlafende_Mädchen_auf_der_Ofenbank  Sleeping_on_the_JobThat doesn’t work for me either. I have seldom been able to sleep on an airplane.

There’s something about my internal clock that has to go through the long process of adapting to the new time zone whether I like it or not. Once I get over jet lag, I am a good sleeper; however, another trip is usually right around the corner and I have to tackle the problem once again.

The problem is I really need the sleep. Studies show that sleep is as important as diet and exercise. Dr. Charles Czeisler, head of the Division of Sleep Medicine at Harvard Medical School, calls sleep the “third pillar of health.”

I know Jesus understands my need for sleep because He took ojesus-sleep-300x209n human flesh. With His death and resurrection, He conquered all human frailties and no longer needs sleep. One day neither will I.

I am glad God’s children never have to be concerned about Him being sleepy or too tired to hear our prayers.

I will lift up my eyes to the hills – from whence comes my help? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth. He will not allow your foot to be moved; He who keeps you will not slumber. Behold, He who keeps Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep (Psalm 121:1-4).

 

A Great Fall

Recently we lost a huge oak tree on our property. A thunderstorm with high winds toppled it. Flooding caused other damage but our greatest loss was this big oak tree.

IMG_0763My biggest surprise in examining the tree that fell was that there seemed to be no root system. That is quite concerning because from all appearances that tree seemed to be just as healthy as the other large oaks surrounding it. It was only after it fell I discovered the roots were not strong enough to keep that mighty oak from falling during a storm.

What happened to my tree was similar to what happened to the houses Jesus described in Matthew 7. There were two men and two houses in that story. When a storm came with great winds, rain and floods, one house stood and another fell down. The difference was the foundation. One house was built on a rock and stood firm against the wind, floods and rain. The other, because iIMG_0765t was constructed on sand, fell. Jesus said, “Great was its fall.”

On the outside, it might have appeared that both these houses were the same. It was the foundation – or in the case of my oak tree, the root – that was the problem.

The stability of the house that survived the storm and the inability of the other to stand was determined by decisions made by their owners. The house built on the rock was built by a wise man who knew the value of time invested to construct a solid foundation. A foolish man built his house on sand- so eager to get it built that he gave no thought to the need for a firm foundation. The possibility of a storm completely destroying his home either never crossed his mind or he decided to take the risk. Either way, he was wrong.

Our spiritual lives are like that. Our strength comes from the Spirit of the Lord – a firm foundation. Those rooted and grounded in His love will be able to withstand the storms of life. Those who are not will fall.

strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, that you may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height – to know the love of God which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God (Ephesians 3:17-19).

Birthday Celebrations

Eleanor_Roosevelt_with_Red_Skelton,_William_Douglas,_Lucille_Ball,_and_John_GarfieldIn America, although we usually celebrate on the actual day, we have no problem stretching our birthday celebrations as far as we can. We celebrate when we can gather together those we want to include in the celebration. If we can only gather together before the day, we do so and have a party. If we can’t get together until after the actual day, celebrating is done then. I have known some of us to stretch birthday celebrations over several weeks!

I lived in Germany for several years and discovered that their birthday traditions were very different. Germans consider it bad luck to wish them happy birthday before their actual day. They certainly do celebrate, but it is on the day itself and the person with the birthday foots the entire bill – even if it is a very large party!

Cantor_&_Temple-FDRI consider Americans (and many other nationalities) fortunate when it comes to birthday celebrations. Others plan the party and can even make it a surprise. The person celebrating the birthday often doesn’t have to do a thing but enjoy family, friends, favorite foods and open their special gifts. They don’t have to do anything or spend anything to enjoy that special day.

As a family, we usually give a lot of thought to our birthday gifts. One year my husband and I designed a special calendar for our grandson’s birthday. The first month was not January, but July – the month of his birth. Each month pictured something related to his name.

God, our Father, made plans for our birthdays long before we were even born – even before He created the world. He designed a special calendar for each one of us. The gifts He gives to us stretch from the beginning of our lives all the way to the end. All we have to do is receive them and enjoy them.

… just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world…having predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the good pleasure of His will (Ephesians 1:4-5). For you formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother’s womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made… Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, the days fashioned for me, when as yet there were none of them (Psalm 139:13, 15-16). Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights… (James 1:17).

A Heavenly Exchange

The Spirit of the Lord God is upon Me, because the Lord has anointed Me to preach good tidings to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound; to proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord, and the day of vengeance of our God; to comfort all who mourn, to console those who mourn in Zion, to give them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they may be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified (Isaiah 61:1-3).

Upon entering the synagogue in Nazareth, Jesus was handed the book of Isaiah. As He read from Isaiah 61:1-2, He said, “Today this Scripture is fulfilled in your hearing” (Luke 4:18-21).

Jesus’ assignment from the Father was clear. He did proclaim the good news that there is redemption for those who trust Him. We will escape God’s day of judgment on sin because of His substitutionary death on the cross.

While His followers are still here on earth, however, He said that the Father sent Him to:

  • heal our broken hearts
  • proclaim freedom to us when we are captive
  • open our prison doors and
  • comfort and console us when we mourn

His love and sacrifice enabled a heavenly exchange:

  • beauty for ashes
  • oil of joy for mourning
  • garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness

When we allow that heavenly exchange to take place, it results in fruitful living to the glory of God: that they may be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He may be glorified.

Just before His crucifixion, Jesus passed on this assignment to His disciples. “I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing… By this My Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit; so you will be My disciples” (John 15: 5, 8).

Hearts are broken all over the world by sin. Believers are persecuted and even imprisoned for the cause of Christ. Those who mourn are everywhere. Some feel that they have been abandoned to the ash heap of life. There is a heavy spirit among even the most devout Christians.

We can help our Christian brothers and sisters most when we remind them of God’s heavenly exchange: our sin for His salvation, our sadness for His joy and comfort, our fear for His freedom, our timidity for His boldness, our confusion for His clarity, our heavy hearts for His praise.

We all need that heavenly exchange. I know I do.

© Stephanie B. Blake

July 2014

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Stain Removal

I have two categories of clothing. My work clothing gets so stained that I accept those stains as inevitable and become complacent about them.

LandscapeI prefer to keep stains out of my good clothing. When one appears, it is best to remove it as soon as possible. The longer a stain stays in fabric, the harder it is to get out. Thankfully, often putting the item under running water will remove the stain.

There are many stain removal products on the market. In every case, the instructions state that the fresher the stain, the easier it is to remove.

Sin is the stain that separates us from God. No matter how hard we try, we cannot remove it on our own. Only Jesus, the Living Water, can do that. His sacrificial death on the cross, the shedding of His blood on our behalf, cleanses those who trust in Him. …Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish (Ephesians 5:25-27).

Christ’s blood completely and eternally cleanses His disciples. Christians still need to be diligent about removing anything that interferes with their relationship with God. On this road of life, Jesus said we need to wash our feet. Jesus said to him, “He who has bathed needs only to wash his feet, but is completely clean; and you are clean, but not all of you” (John 13:10).

It is possible for a child of God to treat sins – anything displeasing to God – like I do the stains on my work clothes – ignore them and become complacent. Just as I need to continually examine my good clothes for stains, my “sin” laundry needs to be examined as well and dealt with immediately. The longer I wait, the harder it is.

… but if we walk in the Light as He Himself is in the Light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus His Son cleanses us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we are deceiving ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:7-9).

Drone Images

Viewing Nova’s “Rise of the Drones” perked my interest and caused me to do a little extended research.

Unmanned Aerial Vehicles or drones come in various shapes and sizes. Although generally controlled by someone on the ground, they can also be operated by onboard computers.

The Robobee – weighing less than a tenth of a gram and half the size of a paper clip – was designed to help with the declining bee population. These robot bees would be capable of flower pollination, climate mapping, traffic monitoring and surveillance. uav-delfly-explorer-afp-lg

The Dragonfly DelFly (another very small drone) has a vision system consisting of a tiny computer and two cameras. The computer processes the images from those cameras in much the same way humans do, essentially giving it 3D vision. Intended uses include everything from detecting ripe fruit in greenhouses, mapping abandoned buildings to masquerading as fairies at a theme park.

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The most recognizable and combat-proven Unmanned Aircraft System is the Predator. It is the first weaponized UAS, features precision air-to-ground weapons delivery capability and is extremely reliable. Its performance is greatly enhanced by its Electro-optical/Infrared video cameras. However, those cameras have a limited field of view and details of key objects can be lost when objects get out of range.

The Argus-IS (Autonomous Real-Time Ground Ubiquitous Surveillance Imaging System) moves several steps forward. Its highly defined camera – developed by combining 368 imagining chips (like those in a cell phone camera) – results in a 1.8 billion pixel image stream. It can be attached to the belly of an UAV like the Predator resulting in an incredibly detailed view of a large area such as a medium size city. From 17,500 feet up (roughly equal to 3-½ miles), objects as small as 6″ can be seen. On display, it is possible to open a window showing a detailed area while still maintaining the broader context.

Scientists will continue to develop highly refined cameras that can see smaller objects from longer distances with clarity. Regardless of one’s opinion of the desirability of this kind of surveillance, it is here and will inevitably be used for good and for bad.

I try to remember that what I see is just part of the picture. There is a broader context to my life and yours. God sees everything – big and small. We are never out of range. His perspective is unique. At the same time, He knows every detail and the whole story – the beginning and the end. His purposes are pure and good. I’m grateful He is in control.

“Nothing in all creation is hidden from God’s sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to who we must give account” (Heb. 4:13, NIV).

Beloved Benediction

The apostle Paul included many prayers in the letters that he wrote to churches and fellow disciples. Among those prayers were at least sixteen prayers that we might categorize as benedictory prayers.

Perhaps the most loved of all the benedictions is the one Paul prayed for the Ephesian church:

  • Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen (Ephesians 20-21).

This benediction is in the middle of Paul’s letter to that church, but it concludes his incredible prayer for them (Ephesians 3:14-19). The prayer and the benediction include some of the most majestic descriptions of the riches of God’s glory imparted to His children.

  • Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly above all that we ask or think …

No matter how big our prayers, God’s supply is bigger still.  – For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts (Isaiah 55:9). – His thoughts are much, much higher. He is not only able to, but does do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think.

God, our Heavenly Father who loves to dote on His children, gives us more than we can ever request. It is true on earth, and it will be true in Heaven.  – Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor have entered into the heart of man the things which God has prepared for those who love Him (1 Corinthians 2:9). – Just as an earthly father watches with glee as his child opens a gift to discover that it was bigger and better than anything he had hoped for, God surprises us time and again with incredible blessings beyond our imaginations.

Psalm 105:1-2 tells us to … Make known His deeds among the peoples … Talk of all His wondrous works! Our conversations with others can be filled with examples of how good God is to us and how He has answered our prayers. Especially those in the church understand when we share our stories, as they can also cite instances of God’s abundant grace in their own lives.

  • according to the power that works in us

Many times our examples have to do with God getting us through what appears to be an impossible situation. In Christ, we have all the resources of the Godhead to accomplish anything He asks us to do. An old hymn reminds us to “trust and obey.” That is our part. God’s part is to do all the work! Isaiah 26:12 says, Lord, You have also done all our works in us.

  • … to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever.

Many things in this world do not last. Flowers fade; grass withers; wood decays, etc. Anything done by God’s power in God’s church (His body) for His glory will last forever.

  • Amen.

So be it!

© Stephanie B. Blake

June 2014

This devotional is adapted from my book, The Prayer Driven Life

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Weeds or Flowers?

Yard maintenance is a must in the spring – especially in the flower gardens. If a few days go by before I work on removing weeds, they can easily overtake the plants I want to keep. Unfortunately, there have been times I have waited too long. Occasionally when I pull a weed, a good plant comes out with it. Their roots had become intertwined. I also have learned that I must dispose of the weeds by bagging them up for trash removal or burning them. If I just toss them aside, I have to deal with them again later.

1024px-2007_echinacea_purpureaI have noticed that not everyone pulls the same plants as weeds. I was at a friend’s house recently and her garden had several plants in it that I pull out of mine. On occasion, my husband will call something a weed that I thought was a flower.

So…some weeds are flowers to some people and some flowers are weeds to others! It takes knowledge and a discerning eye to know the difference.

I guess it is a matter of personal preference and what kind of garden you want to have. It is a case of “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”

God does not have the same issues we do with our gardens. He knows exactly which items should be destroyed and which ones should be kept. He is, for now, allowing them to grow together. When harvest time comes, He has readied an army of angels with discerning eyes to sort them all out.

“The kingdom of heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field; but while men slept, his enemy came and sowed tares among the wheat and went his way. But when the grain had sprouted and produced a crop, then the tares also appeared. So the servants of the owner came and said to him, ‘Sir, did you not sow goo240px-Wheat_close-upd seed in your field? How then does it have tares?’

He said to them, ‘An enemy has done this.’ The servants said to him, ‘Do you want us then to go and gather them up?’ But he said, ‘No, lest while you gather up the tares you also uproot the wheat with them. Let them grow together until the harvest, and at the time of harvest I will say to the reapers, “First gather together the tares and bind them in bundles to burn them, but gather the wheat into my barn.’ (Matthew 13:24-30).

 

 

Perfect Timing

I have been fascinated with the range of photographs that have been included in collections of perfect timing images. A photograph taken in the right place at the right time at a great angle can have some surprising results.

Some pictures taken of an animal and a person give the illusion of an animal head on a human body because of the position of the animal. Some are pictures with surprise backgrounds – such as the Olympic rings sitting on top of the moon or a man appearing to step onto the moon.

Some pictures presented in a string of perfect timing photos were actually accidentally timed that way. The photographer was surprised at the image he caught with his camera. He may have been unaware of something in the background or that he was catching a special reflection. Occasionally the surprise was in the foreground such as the comical image of a ground squirrel becoming the focus of a “selfie” of a vacationing couple. The squirrel popped into the shot at the last moment. His image was crystal clear and the couple’s image was cloudy.

Camera(9)I even surprised myself when I was playing around with the camera feature on my e-reader and took a picture with the setting sun making a beautiful reflection on the water. Two things were surprising about this photograph. I’m a terrible photographer and the picture was taken backwards because the camera on the Kindle Fire is basically designed to be used with SKYPE (or maybe to take a “selfie”).

Other perfect timing photos have been painstakingly orchestrated. The NASA telescopes have produced some amazing images, but the personnel sometimes waited for months or years to get exactly what they wanted.

Discovery in Orbit Discovery's cargo bay over Earth's horizon was photographed by one of the seven STS-114 crew members as the Shuttle approached the International Space Station.  Discovery in Orbit Discovery's cargo bay over Earth's horizon was photographed by one of the seven STS-114 crew members as the Shuttle approached the International Space Station.  Discovery in Orbit Discovery's cargo bay over Earth's horizon was photographed by one of the seven STS-114 crew members as the Shuttle approached the International Space Station.  Credit: NASA Credit: NASA

Discovery in Orbit
Discovery’s cargo bay over Earth’s horizon was photographed by one of the seven STS-114 crew members as the Shuttle approached the International Space Station.
Credit: NASA

What is not accidental is God’s timing. In our impatience, we may think He is not working or that He has forgotten about a specific need or request of ours. The truth is, His timing is always perfect. His timing may be a surprise to us, but it is not to Him.

You may pray for years about something just to realize that if He had given it to you before the right time, everything else would have been all wrong. He can coordinate perfect timing for you, your family, your friends and everyone else all at once.

When I am tempted to think that God is not working or is late, I remember that He has a totally different perspective that I do. I am slowly learning to trust His timing.

Chaos at the Heart of Orion Image credit: NASA/JPL-Caltech/STScI

Chaos at the Heart of Orion
Image credit: NASA/JPL-Caltech/STScI

 

 

 

To every thing there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven…I said in my heart, ‘God shall judge the righteous and the wicked, for there is a time there for every purpose and every work’ (Ecclesiastes 3:1, 17). My times are in Your hand (Psalm 31:15a). But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint (Isaiah 40:31). NKJV.